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From the carved sandstone caves of Matala, on the south coast of Crete, the view opens over a deep blue bay and a whitewashed village.

Crete, Greece · May 23–30, 2027

SOFTEN — A Journey Back
to Yourself

8 Days · 7 Nights · Limited to 16 Participants

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The Invitation

What if the life you’ve been longing for doesn’t require you to try harder— but to soften?

Join us on Crete for eight days of discovery, adventure, ceremony and connection.

Not to escape your life.
To remember how you want to live it.

Discover the experience
Sunset over Balos lagoon in western Crete: a rocky island, pale sandbars and calm sea, with wild herbs on the hillside in the foreground.
Aerial view of Knossos Beach Resort: white cubic buildings, olive trees and a pool beside a sandy Mediterranean beach.

Your Home in Crete

Eight days where nothing needs to be earned.

Knossos Beach Resort, on the Mediterranean — beautiful accommodation, Cretan cuisine and space to breathe, rest and receive.

The resort

A white and blue guest room opening through sheer curtains onto a pool and the sea.
Room
Sea
At dusk, uplit olive trees and a dry-stone planter wall beside a curving pool between whitewashed buildings.
Rest

Knossos Beach ResortSeven nights beachfront on the Mediterranean.

Explore the resort (opens the resort’s website)

An Ancient World

There were other ways of being alive.

Thousands of years ago, the Minoans flourished here — leaving behind imagery of women, goddesses, nature, beauty and sacred ritual.

  • Knossos
  • Heraklion
  • Eleftherna
  • Sacred Caves

Go inward.

Away from familiar routines,
we slow down, open and connect.

From the caves of Matala, the bay opens below in bright Mediterranean daylight.

Receive.

Crete through the senses

Life is allowed
to feel good.

  1. A local host presents a board of dakos topped with tomato, feta and herbs while guests look on.
    TasteSharing food with local cooks
  2. A traditional wooden loom with undyed wool in a stone-walled room.
    MakeCheese, soap, pottery and weaving — by hand
  3. Dancers in traditional Cretan dress, hands joined, moving together in a circle dance.
    DanceCretan music and dancing in the mountain village of Anogia
  4. ExploreMatala · Heraklion · Rethymno · Elounda Bay
  5. Two women prepare bread and a creamy dip together at a table in a stone kitchen.
    ConnectShared meals and heartfelt conversations
  6. A group of friends leap and laugh with arms raised on a sandy beach at the water's edge.
    Be aliveThe moment you realize how good it feels to be alive

The inner experience

Not everything
happens
on the itinerary.

Some of it
happens
inside you.

A woman sits alone in the dune grasses, looking out over the still water of Balos lagoon.

Practices that invite softening

  1. 01Qi Gong
  2. 02Meditation
  3. 03Breathwork
  4. 04Nervous-system practices
  5. 05Ceremony
  6. 06Transformational workshops

Community

You won’t
do this
alone.

Sixteen women.

Intentionally
gathered.

We put down
some of the armor.

And make room
to be seen.

Through shared experiences, ceremony, laughter and meaningful conversations, the group itself becomes part of the transformation.

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Wendy Bunnell, smiling in a wide-brimmed hat and white shirt, crouched on sunlit sandstone.
Wendy Bunnell
Megan Sillito sits against the trunk of an ancient olive tree on Crete.
Megan Sillito

Wendy Bunnell

Aliveness.
Connection.
Wonder.

Wendy is a creator of extraordinary experiences that awaken aliveness, connection, wonder and the ability to bring that magic into everyday life.

Megan Sillito

Sacred land.
Activation.
Integration.

Megan is a transformational facilitator and energy artist with over 30 years of experience, specializing in sacred land and personal activations that invite deeper connection, expanded awareness and lasting integration.

Your guides

Two women.
One shared vision.

Something neither
could create alone.

  • Sacred land
  • Ceremony
  • Nervous system
  • Adventure
  • Play
  • Community
  • Integration

Megan Sillito and Wendy Bunnell bring together decades of transformational experience, a passion for awakening human potential, and a shared belief that life is meant to be deeply felt, fully lived and joyfully created.

Blending sacred land activations, ceremony, nervous-system practices, adventure, play and the powerful energy of community, they create an intentional space where ancient wisdom meets embodied experience.

Where transformation doesn’t require struggle. Where joy becomes part of the journey. Where the extraordinary becomes something you learn to welcome into the ordinary.

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The eight days

What will fill
the eight days.

  1. 01 · Ancient Crete

    Minoan wonders

    The Palace of Knossos, the Heraklion Archaeological Museum and Ancient Eleftherna — exploring sacred imagery, art and history.

  2. 02 · Sacred caves

    Caves & mythology

    The Idaean Cave, associated with Zeus, and the Eileithyia Cave, connected to the ancient goddess of childbirth.

  3. 03 · Cretan culture

    Food, wine & craft

    A cooking workshop with locals in Episkopi, traditional cheese-making, a winery tasting, an olive mill and soap-making, and the pottery village of Margarites.

  4. 04 · Music & dance

    Anogia

    The mountain village of Anogia, with its weaving traditions, Cretan music and dancing.

  5. 05 · Beauty & adventure

    Sea, towns & markets

    Matala’s hippie caves and beach, Heraklion and Rethymno, a farmers market, Bioaroma’s botanical experience and an Elounda Bay cruise.

  6. 06 · Practice

    Practices that invite softening

    Qi Gong, meditation, breathwork, nervous-system practices, ceremony and transformational workshops.

  7. 07 · Connection

    Deep connection

    Intimate circles, shared meals, laughter, heartfelt conversations and the energy of an intentionally gathered community.

And then there are
the moments
no itinerary can promise.

An unexpected friendship.

A synchronicity.

Laughter that won’t stop.

The moment you realize how good it feels to be alive.

That’s where
the magic lives.

An investment in your aliveness

Choose how
you’d like
to say yes.

Sixteen places.
No more.

Kept small to preserve intimacy, connection and community.

All prices are per person. Founding Enrollment pricing is offered to those who feel called to commit early.

How to join Apply below — Wendy & Megan read every application personally. Your place is confirmed once your application is accepted and your enrollment payment is completed.

Almost everything taken care of

  • Seven nights of beachfront accommodation at Knossos Beach Resort
  • Scheduled excursions and cultural experiences
  • Museum admissions
  • Retreat transportation
  • Breakfasts, dinners and most lunches
  • Qi Gong, meditation, breathwork and nervous-system practices
  • Workshops and sacred ceremonies with Wendy and Megan

Not included

  • Airfare to Crete
  • A few lunches on your own
  • Personal purchases
  • Optional extras

Questions

When and where is SOFTEN?

May 23–30, 2027 — eight days and seven nights on the island of Crete, Greece. Our home is Knossos Beach Resort on the Mediterranean.

Who is leading the retreat?

Wendy Bunnell and Megan Sillito, who bring together decades of transformational experience.

How many people will be there?

SOFTEN is limited to 16 participants, to preserve intimacy, connection and community.

What does it cost?

The regular investment is $5,900 per person. Founding Enrollment pricing is offered to those who commit early: $4,444 paid in full (save $1,456), or $5,000 as a payment plan of five payments of $1,000.

How do I reserve my place?

Fill in the short retreat application. Wendy and Megan read every application personally and will be in touch. Submitting an application does not guarantee a reservation — your place is confirmed once your application is accepted and your enrollment payment is completed.

Who is this retreat for?

SOFTEN is an intimate retreat for women who feel called to slow down, reconnect with themselves, explore ancient wisdom and experience the beauty of connection, sisterhood and sacred remembrance.

Do I need a passport?

Yes — please make sure you have a valid passport that will not expire before January 2029. If yours needs renewing, starting early gives you peace of mind.

What is included?

Seven nights of beachfront accommodation at Knossos Beach Resort; scheduled excursions, cultural experiences, museum admissions and retreat transportation; breakfasts, dinners and most lunches; Qi Gong, meditation, breathwork, nervous-system practices, workshops and sacred ceremonies with Wendy and Megan.

What is not included?

Airfare to Crete, a few lunches on your own, personal purchases and optional extras.

Where will we go?

Experiences include the Palace of Knossos, the Heraklion Archaeological Museum, Ancient Eleftherna, the Idaean and Eileithyia caves, Episkopi, Margarites, Anogia, Matala, Heraklion, Rethymno, a farmers market, Bioaroma and an Elounda Bay cruise.

There will always
be a reason to wait.

  • Responsibilities.
  • Schedules.
  • People who need you.
  • A more convenient time.

But where are you
on the list?

May 23–30, 2027 · Crete · 16 participants

You don’t need
to become
someone new.

Maybe you need the space
to remember who
you’ve always been.

Come across
the world with us.
Come home
to yourself.

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